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Part 2: Relationships Built on Selflessness

Building strong, lasting relationships requires a solid foundation. Just as with anything well-built, relationships endure when built with care and intention. Last week, we explored the story of Ruth and how viewing others from God’s perspective was key to forming deep connections. This week, we examined the story of Ruth’s grandson, David, and the relationships between David, Saul (Israel’s first king), and his son, Jonathan. Saul wanted to pass the crown to Jonathan, but God had chosen David as the next king, filling Saul with jealousy and rage. Jonathan, however, responded with humility. He recognized God’s hand on David and supported him, even helping him find strength in God during difficult times. Jonathan’s relationship with David was marked by trust in God and a willingness to give rather than take.

God calls us to approach relationships differently than the world does. In Matthew 5:43-44, Jesus challenges us to love those who are for us and those who are against us. Saul’s relationships were driven by self-interest, and when he didn’t get what he wanted, he sought control rather than trust in God’s plan. Jonathan’s faithfulness and selflessness in his friendship with David are a powerful testament to how relationships thrive when we set out to give rather than receive. While the world’s economy teaches that giving diminishes what we have, God’s economy is one where giving leads to greater abundance. When we love others from the overflow of God’s love, we are never left lacking; his love will consistently replenish us. God’s incredible design for relationships deepens our connection with others and him, allowing us to love freely and live fully.